Dear Survivor, Has anyone ever told you thank you for surviving? If not, then I would like to be the first person to tell you, so here it goes: THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SURVIVING! Now, some may be wondering, why I decided to say that or what that really means. What it means is that, surviving domestic violence is more than just leaving or escaping an unhealthy relationship, because even after you do that, you still have to SURVIVE. A lot of people do not understand what domestic violence survivors go through on a daily basis, they have to fight emotions, block out negative thoughts, maybe even tune out negative people, they have to learn to love themselves again, they have to learn to believe in themselves again, they have to believe they are are worth living, they have to learn to trust again and most importantly they have to HEAL! Surviving is not something that happens overnight, surviving is something that you do everyday, so from one survivor to another, I just really wanted...
I have fallen from the fat into the fire! How dumb was I ?!! Not all dumb it seems because I didnt do my homework after the first time ! I didnt look at why he was
ReplyDelete"attracted " to me or vice versa! But through looking at the work of Dr Jeanne King Ph.D. I have learnt so much about the dynamic that got us together . I wanted to be rescued (subconsciously)from the first one so therefore I was vulnerable prey for the second one! So now I know and I am working on loving myself internally rather than seeking approval externally! If you'd like to learn from Dr Kings experiences, visit: http://www.kickstartcart.com/app/?af=1673621 You'll be glad you did!
I want to know more on this for myself and for public education.
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